How to solve the "dating app" collective action problem:
1) Stop calling them "dating apps," and call them what they really are: SHAGGING apps.
2) If you are even considering a serious, long-term relationship, delete all of those apps yesterday and don't look back.
3) Even if you are not looking for a serious, long-term relationship, you may still benefit nonetheless from an "emotional detox" by deleting and/or deactivating such apps temporarily.
Well, I certainly can see some ways in which we agree, and others where we disagree. Altho most of the latter seem to me to be a question of, "Did you ask yourself this question?" For example... "Is dating actually a good thing? What is or should be its goals? Is it a good way to get married?" And further... what should be our overall goals?
You state, for example, "If you don't want to have kids, that's absolutely OK" and I would disagree... both for yourself, and for society as a whole.
It's almost like Gaia is trying to tell us something......
How to solve the "dating app" collective action problem:
1) Stop calling them "dating apps," and call them what they really are: SHAGGING apps.
2) If you are even considering a serious, long-term relationship, delete all of those apps yesterday and don't look back.
3) Even if you are not looking for a serious, long-term relationship, you may still benefit nonetheless from an "emotional detox" by deleting and/or deactivating such apps temporarily.
4) Apply the "let them" theory.
Problem solved. Next.
Well, I certainly can see some ways in which we agree, and others where we disagree. Altho most of the latter seem to me to be a question of, "Did you ask yourself this question?" For example... "Is dating actually a good thing? What is or should be its goals? Is it a good way to get married?" And further... what should be our overall goals?
You state, for example, "If you don't want to have kids, that's absolutely OK" and I would disagree... both for yourself, and for society as a whole.
It looks like we have a lot to discuss :)